Sunday, July 28, 2013

Final Tailwinds

Closing in on 2 weeks to head to Burlington, VT. I remember this time last year I was doubting my preparation and wondering if I should even go. This year, once again I doubt my preparation but cannot wait to join this wonderful group of riders and new friends.

It is a little bittersweet this year as I have made the decision not to pursue a 2014 Journey for 1000 miles for AIDS. Not because I don't feel the passion any more - but simply because there are competing priorities that are stretching me thin. I miss my low-country South Carolina family and while my 80+ years mother could easily run circles around me, I would like to see her more than I have over the last 2 years. Work is also incredibly more intense now and this trajectory will likely continue. Equally, I need and desire more quality time with my Atlanta family and friends - for everything from simple dinners to fun vacations.

For those who know me, my work is not just a job to me, it is part of my life's mission. I believe in higher education - I want faculty to be able to focus on educating, physicians to focus on healing, researchers to focus on new discoveries (including an AIDS vaccine) and administrators to focus on clearing the path for these contributions. I am an administrator - and, as such, I am called to help create the path which has become more and more complex since I joined Emory 11 years ago. There is a only a thin veil between expectations and opportunities and I need and want to thrive in that space and help make a difference in the industry I have devoted my life to. I also want my team members to thrive as well - within the definitions they each set for themselves and how it fits in our area responsibilities. I may only be one person - but I am not alone in this belief or desire to cut through the complexity. My 2012 and 2013 AIDS journeys have reinforced this and I am thankful for the wonderful gift it has given me.

I will probably overload you all with pictures from New England so you can meet people who have dedicated over 10 years to this journey. There is so much love, perseverance and determination in the Charity Treks group - and in the end, those are the key ingredients for ending AIDS.

Cranking up for a glorious final 3 weeks of adventures - love and tailwinds to each of you!

2 comments:

  1. Belva
    You are my HERO! It was you who inspired me to ride in the AV200 for my first time. I wasn't nearly in shape that I could have been, but I rode 67 out of the 200 miles. I made it without stopping from Emory to Stone Mountain. Wow! What an accomplishment for someone who is plus size around the stomach area lolol. David and I practiced in Macon, then I went traveling for the new job. When the AV200 came around, I was out of practice again, but I brought a team with me, Team Macon It.

    I felt it was time for me to get more involved rather than sitting on the sidelines and watch other people raise money for a cure. Now the money that I raised will go to help and inspire another person. It was you that set the ball rolling.

    I am glad you are paying attention to the important things in life which we tend to overlook until it's too late. As I have heard many times "Nothing happens by mistake in God's world." He may be asking you to rest so He can continue to use you. You have a lot of energy and passion so enjoy the rest.

    I have Delta Sky Miles if you need them for a race or to visit family. If this is the only way I can say "Thank You" for all you have done for AIDS then the miles are yours.

    I am looking forward to getting back in the swing of blogging, and viewing your photos from all of your travels whether they be a ride or just visiting family.

    This bible verse is my favorite. I hope you don't mind. I know people think that Gay men and women do not think of God or pray but David and I do. Gay men and women have been ostracized by the church but it's not the church who I am worshipping. Here is Matthew 25:23

    "His master replied, 'Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!'

    Many Thanks,
    Love Ray Villegas (David)

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  2. Oh Ray, you have no idea how much I needed to hear your words. Thank you so much. You are awesome and one of my treasured gifts from this journey. I hope to see you in the AV200 next May!

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